For most guys, approaching a hot woman is down right scary. Why?
One of the reasons why most men fear approaching women is because they tend to put too much high value on the woman they're approaching. By giving a woman a higher value, a guy psychologically puts himself at a lower status.
When a guy sees a hot babe, he usually creates in his mind, a series of preconceive assumptions of the woman. Don't worry, girls do the same thing to guys they are attracted to. It's the result of social programming. When we see a guy driving a brand new Ferrari, we automatically assume he's rich and successful. We don't pause to think, maybe the guy is renting the car, or borrowing it or worst, stoled it. We just assume he's a rich guy. Well guys do the same, when they see a beautiful woman. Typically when a guy sees a hot babe he automatically thinks she's perfect. He doesn't stop to think the girl might be insecure, have some problems, just like any body else. This false idealism, men have on women, may create unnecessary anxiety and fear of failure when they try to approach a beautiful woman.
So what's the solution? Well, one of the things you can to do when you approach a woman is to remind yourself that she's just another girl, who sleeps, farts, goes to the bathroom just like everyone else. It other words, keep a healthy perspective of women, because behind the highlights, make up, and fancy clothes, she's just another woman, who maybe... you want to get to know.
Keeping a healthy perspective on women, not putting them on a pedestal and reminding yourself, that it's a man's role to approach a woman, will help eased the anxiety and fear that you may have the next time you see a beautiful woman you want to approach.
Now, if you want to learn more about approaching and dating women, check out how to be a Alpha Man that knows how to attract and approach beautiful women.
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